Couples Cooking Recipes & Tips for a Date Night at Home

As a culinary instructor and the author of an aphrodisiac cookbook, I’ve spent many years teaching cooking to singles and to couples. What is most interesting to me about the experience is not what the participants learn in our short time together but how cooking together changes people.

I’ve seen strangers become lifelong friends and couples who come into the room barely speaking evolve into loving, affectionate creatures as an evening of cooking together evolves. With this as my inspiration, I’ve assembled my best couples’ cooking recipes as well as a few tips for making the evening feel special.

A menu of date night dinner recipes

One of the most successful elements of the date night dinner menus I’ve planned is the cocktail. More specifically, this Valentini cocktail.

As for what you put on the plate, I’ve taught romantic cooking classes with a variety of different menu items. The common link is that they all feature aphrodisiac ingredients. What you choose to cook really depends on your personal preferences and those of your lover.

For me, scallops make the ultimate romantic dinner. And I can’t imagine an aphrodisiac dinner without chocolate. However, my favorite date night items might not excite you. But here are a few aphrodisiac-laced romantic dinner recipes from our website great for couples cooking:

Homemade Scallop Pizza
Lavender and Rosemary Chicken
Pomegranate Roasted Pork with Sexy Vegetables
Oven Roasted Dungeness Crab Clusters
Frozen Coconut Parfait with Fresh Blackberries
Flourless Chocolate Almond Cake
Aphrodisiac Key Lime Pie

And if you prefer to skip the cocktails, consider serving a romantic bottle of wine or Champagne. (Do you know why red wine is considered a potent aphrodisiac?) Here are some great tips on choosing a romantic wine on any budget.

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Of course, alcohol doesn’t need to be a part of the plan for a romantic evening. Instead, you could plan to serve a sophisticated aphrodisiac mocktail like this elegant pomegranate-based drink.

How to set the tone for a cooking date night

Although the actual food is important, don’t stop your plan at the menu. Think about the other things about a date night that can transform time at home into an evening of passion:

• Pick the right music. (I’d go with Barry White. But you might try searching your favorite streaming service for a romantic playlist that hits all the right notes.)
• Set a romantic scene. Since you’re cooking together, there probably won’t be time to set a romantic table. But that’s ok. Maybe you can find a new eating venue to serve your meal. Perhaps you can try sitting on plump pillows beneath the coffee table. You can always make it a picnic in bed.
• Lastly, do not worry about the dishes! Let yourself ride the wave of romance wherever it takes you. There will always be time to clean up later.

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Diane Brown

Diane Brown is the author of The Seduction Cookbook: Culinary Creations For Lovers, (Innova Publishing 2005). She is a personal chef as well as a freelance food writer. Her work has appeared in publications including Bon Appetit, Gourmet, Sunset, Veggie Life, Chile Pepper and Wine Enthusiast. She has taught aphrodisiac cooking both in person and on tv and radio, including appearances on The Other Half, Fox News “Ask the Expert” and Leeza at Night. A champion of CSA's, Diane writes the blog Family Farm Box, where she showcases the use of local, fresh produce.

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