For
couples that have already had their honeymoon and
are headed into familymoon country, a
last hurrah before the big day comes should be as
simple as, well, giving candy to a baby.
At least that is what Ramsey, N.J.-based Liberty Travel
discovered last year when it surveyed some 800 travelers
and learned 59 percent of new parents had taken a
special vacation, or "babymoon, " that included
an overnight stay away from home.
Market research from Liberty Travel and Babycenter.com
indicate expecting couples are traveling. More than
two million babymoons are taken by U.S. parents-to-be
each year: 43% of those couples are looking for rest
and relaxation; 41% take this trip as a final couples
getaway before baby makes three.
Babymooners prefer non-strenuous, non-scheduled activities
(62%), although when asked, 59% said they were interested
in shopping, and 48% wanted to get in some sightseeing
during this getaway.
Surveys also reveal the average babymoon takes place
during the second trimester and lasts for two to four
nights, typically in the eastern or western United
States.
Certainly, word is out about this new vacation concept.
What was that extended holiday to Namibia taken by
Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt but a leisurely babymoon?
What was it that Britney Spears and Kevin Federline
were doing in Scottsdale as they hit shops, spas and
restaurants just before Sean Preston's birth?
While word is out, however, words of caution still
prevail.
Can you travel if you are pregnant?
Only your doctor can answer you with certainty. Woman
with high risk pregnancies, late in their terms or
carrying multiple births should avoid traveling too
far from the hospital. In most cases, however, traveling
while pregnant is perfectly safe. Check with your
doctor and check with the airline or cruise line.
Many carriers ban the boarding of pregnant women who
are past a certain number of weeks of gestation.
What is the optimal time to babymoon?
Although
pregnancy can be full of surprised the best time to
travel is the second trimester when the nausea period
will have passed, but the discomfort of the third
trimester has yet to begin.
Babymoon Do's
Do drink loads of water while traveling and sightseeing.
Your body and baby need for more water than normal
to stay hydrated.
If you are flying do get up and walk every half hour
if possible and flex and extend your ankles frequently
to prevent blood clots. Also, wear your seat belt
under your belly. And do keep drinking that water!
Do travel with a companion. While you may be on vacation,
you're still you and that means your heartburn, your
leg cramps, and those frequent bathroom breaks are
part of the plan. A companion help handle any emergencies,
assist with the baggage and offer sympathy for those
pains
and ferret out the closest bathroom just
when you need it most.
Babymoon Don'ts
Don't plan too ambitious an itinerary. Keep things
open and simple and pliable for plenty of rest.
Don't bring your old tennis shoes or walking shoes.
Chances are you won't be able to get your swollen
feet into them.
Don't let the bugs bite. Mosquitoes may be everywhere
but bites are avoidable by wearing proper covering
and bland colors. Stay indoors at dusk and dawn when
the buggers are swarming. Don't wear perfumes or strong
smelling moisturizers and avoid using insecticide
with cancer-causing DEET.
Don't ride a bike, ski the black diamonds, go SCUBA
diving or rock climbing. Consider doing that bungee
jump at a later time. Any activity with the danger
of impact is verboten.Why babymoon?
This may be the last moment of peace you and your
partner have for yourselves alone, as a couple with
the freedom of being that couple, for the foreseeable
two decades. It's a moment of rediscovery that is
best facilitated in a soothing and calming place.
Babymoon Packages
Miramonte Resort & Spa in Indian Wells, CA in
Palm Springs Desert Resort, offers a Spa for
Two package. Couples enjoy a stay at the resort,
a day of solitude at THE WELL Spa and have two 60-minute
treatments per day, per each night of their stay.
Rates are $369 to $409 inclusive per night. Customize
this refreshing escape into a babymoon holiday with
the addition of a 60- or 75-minute Bella Body treatment.
While seated comfortably, a warm gauze is applied
to the mother-to-be's torso and smoothed to conform
to her Goddess shape. This heirloom sculpture is then
presented as a take-home gift and three-dimensional
snapshot of the woman's fleeting transformative beauty
during this special time of her life. The treatment
costs $150 for a one-hour session, $160 for 75 minutes.
Add the husband, who gently and intimately wraps the
gauze, and the cost is reduced to $130 and $140. Call
(800) 237-2926 or visit www.miramonteresort.com.
St. Regis Resort, Monarch Beach, in Dana Point, Ca
offers the perfect pampering package with the Last
Hurrah. For their last days of solitude the
package puts couples in an ocean view room and adds
an Aromance couple's massage or a pregnancy
massage for her and a one-hour massage for him at
Spa Gaucin, the resort's European-themed spa. The
pre-baby getaway also includes a special DVD selection
of baby movies such as "She's Having a Baby,"
"Nine Months" and "Baby Boom,"
that can be enjoyed in comfort and privacy. Lastly,
for those late-night appetites a special "cravings"
menu brings the ultimate in comfort foods to the fore
with Fried Chicken and French Fries, Peanut Butter
& Jelly, Macaroni & Cheese, Angus Beef Burger,
or a Warm Chocolate Cake and Ice Cream Sundae. Rates
start at $735 per night. Call (949) 234-3200 or visit
www.stregismb.com.
Amore by the Sea in Victoria British Columbia has
a babymoon package in a two-night minimum stay. For
$200 per night for two, it brings plenty of value:
a one-hour aromatherapy facial for Mom-To-Be and a
deep tissue workout for soon-to-be-Dad, plus chilled,
sparkling cider, an amenity basket of soaps and lotions,
a large box of chocolates and a Canadian teddy bear
for the baby. Call (888) 828-4397 or visit www.AmoreByTheSea.com.
Rosario Resort & Spa, a turn-of-the-century mansion
on Orcas Island in Washington, 80 miles north of Seattle,
has a two-night babymoon, which includes a $20 dining
credit, use of the Avanyu Spa fitness facility, a
bottle of chilled Martinelli's and a half-dozen homemade
cookies, two 50-minute massages (with prenatal massages
available) and all resort taxes and fees. Prices are
$439 to $689, depending on room and season. Call (866)
801-ROCK or visit rosario.rockresorts.com
For more information on babymoons or travel packages
visit www.babycenter.com
or contact Liberty Travel at (888) 900-1290 and ask
for Babymoon Packages.